Its Happening !!!
Yes – I am getting married to Sharmila on 18.Oct.2012 it’s an interesting change in my life and I started enjoying the new change. Before confirming it to my mom about my decision of saying ‘Yes’ I was sceptical about ‘Am I am ready for this??’ but slowly I am into my senses and I have taken a positive decision to go ahead and move further.
Still I didn’t know what makes me to say ‘Yes’ for my marriage – Is it a girl or is it a time for me to get married – Is it the family or what ?? I don’t know exactly!! But I love this change and I too love my girl – ‘Sharmila’ very much than any thing else now!! So obviously I have taken a right decision and I am sticking to this for my life!!
How it happened J
One of my close relative got Sharmila parents to our notice and about us to them as they know each other. It’s a planned arranged marriage from both their families. My mom was very much impressed with the way uncle was talking to us. She was almost finalised with her decision before meeting them in person.
We went to their home on 03.June.2012 to visit their entire family and we are very much satisfied and I believe they were also very much satisfied with our family. Then after some time Sharmila’s whole family came to our house and the marriage was almost confirmed now. The decision was pending with me and Sharmila now and the whole family was waiting for our call. We had a discussion shortly at first and I found she was the one who born for me. Without much thoughts I gave my confirmation to my Mom and Dad and she also confirmed from her side. It was a classic – South Indian wedding confirmation and I do love that even in the modern era of – Internet – Cloud – Wiki world!!
We got engaged finally @ one sunny morning in a village named – ‘Thammampatti’ near Salem City. Again it’s a classical engagement and both of our family members got to know each other well in that function. My very close friends – Venky, Vivek anna, Thiruppathi, Thirumaran and Shiva (A-203) also came. We had a nice time together in my aunt’s place. All my close relatives also turned up. It was one of the memorable event for me till now.
Marriage Preparation !!
So now the Marriage preparation is in full swing and I am getting more excited after seeing all the happenings around me. My parents and my in-laws were in full swing of giving the invitations. We also started distributing the invitations to all our friends and close relatives.
I have rented a 3BHK home @ B.Narayanapura in Bangalore and my parents and my in-laws also came to do the Pooja for my new home. To my surprise I have my close friends Divya and Venky also there with me during the Pooja.
I am so happy and excited to have both these people with me in my life. Along with the above two I love to have Vel and Vivek anna to be part.
Clothes for our families and for us have taken two weeks before still my suit is pending. I have to do that shopping as soon as possible. My uncle ‘Ramachandran’ and Gowtham were instrumental in getting the accommodation things done for all our invitees for our marriage.
The marriage hall – TAJ Marriage Hall were also booked in advance and other arrangements such as Catering were also done as planned. The time is nearing and slowly things are getting completed as we are nearing the marriage. I am getting excited day by day and things are going as per the plan. I am gearing up for our BIG Day 18.Oct.2012!! All you people who are reading this blog before 17.Oct.2012 are invited for my marriage. The invitation will be referred in the below mentioned wed link:
Please look at the wedding link for our marriage invitation below: